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What if I don't Succeed?.....And What if I DO?

When I speak to potential clients, one of their biggest fears is that they may not succeed at the goal they are striving for.

The next thing on their mind is, what if I do succeed? Then what?

Having success at something you have longed for can be just as scary. It is common to block ourselves from achieving our dreams, what if reality doesn’t come up to scratch? And what if you reach your ultimate goal and you become purposeless?

And then there is the work involved in reaching what you want.

After dreaming about it for such a long time, there is the worry that you don’t have the energy to do what is required. Clients frequently tell me they don’t have the time.

We have all the time in the world to live a life we don’t really want but not enough to work for the one we do want.

Does this sound familiar?

I used to be terrified of trying too hard. I felt exhausted even thinking of what I may have to do to get there. So, I would stop myself from taking the first steps and then I would feel terrible when it “failed”.

It’s no wonder I was exhausted and overwhelmed. I was only looking at the end result with a huge boulder to work around to get there. Nothing specific, just blocks all over the place. It was like reaching for the peak of Everest before I even got to the foothills. It often felt completely impossible.

Breaking big goals down into small chunks is the road for success. By the time you reach your destination, you have so much growth, so many tools and a huge amount of experience.

Then your life opens up, expands out and creates room for the next thing.

Just because you reach the top of the mountain, doesn’t mean you can’t then swim the lake.

  • So, what is stopping you?

  • What are your excuses for not making changes?

  • What are you putting off for fear of failure, or success?

  • How much energy do you want to put into living a life you don’t really want, for worrying about the work it may take to get the one you do want?

  • What if you started today, got everything you dreamed of and discovered your perfect happiness?

  • Or perhaps you found the next exciting thing to strive for. What then?

  • What if you stayed exactly as you are today?

I understand it’s scary. That’s why I became a coach. To guide people through the foothills to the summit, reducing overwhelm and showing the amazing vistas along the way.

For me, experiencing all the different points on the landscape of a client’s journey is the joy of it all. Seeing the growth and change is why I love getting up for work every day.

What are you holding back from achieving, worrying you may not succeed? What are you avoiding starting, for fear of success?

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Jenny Jarvis is a practicing, certified, UK Holistic Life Change Coach and NLP Specialist who has empowered numerous people to live a life of their dreams, unleash their relationship with money and start and grow brands and businesses to great success. A truly inspirational individual, Jenny is also the mum to two amazing teens, a Reiki Master and motivational speaker. She inspires all to harness their greatness through energised coaching sessions, workshops and her membership club. Book a free introductory session with Jenny HERE and discovery how you might work together. Or why not get started with her FREE 'Life Change Kickstart' Mini course HERE


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