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Life Change Articles from Jenny Jarvis Coaching

What if I never......

Find love?

Discover my perfect job?

Have enough money?

Feel confident?

Enjoy my life?

Do you sit with these thoughts going around in your head?

I know I certainly have.

So many “what if’s”

What are you doing about them?

Are you just sat there wondering?

Are you in a panic?

Do you feel that nothing is even around the corner?

Or can you feel it?

Like Tony in West Side Story

Just out of reach, on a beach, under a tree….

It’s right there, waiting for you.

The love of your life, the career of your dreams, the person you really want to be.

Just a few steps out of sight.

Those things may have been a few steps out of sight for some time. And now you are stuck. How do you actually reach them?

In the last few years, I had all those thoughts. When would I find my “thing”? Then I found coaching.

Will I ever find that relationship I am pining for? The one where we are equals. Where we have the same values and desires.

Will I ever be confident enough to present myself on social media, create videos, reach out to people.

The answer to all of these is Yes. I will. I have and I do.

All of them are now a reality.

But they weren’t.

What changed?

I got my own coach. I learned to deal with discomfort. I trained to be an NLP practitioner and I looked deep inside myself to see where I was holding myself back. I took action. I still take action. I don’t stop (well, some days I rest, but I don’t give up).

If it’s possible for me, it’s also possible for you. When things get tough, I remind myself. If it’s out there in the world for someone else, it’s out there for me. It helps me to keep going.

  • Where are you holding yourself back?

  • How many “What if’s “ do you have going on in your head?

  • What if you could?

  • What if things don’t have to be as they have always been?

  • What if you can have the relationship/job/confidence?

  • What would life look like then?

How will you feel when you look back on your life? Will you be saying, I finally did it, I got there. Or will you still be thinking, I wish I had done something different?

Let me know in the comments.

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Jenny Jarvis is a practicing, certified, UK Holistic Life Change Coach and NLP Specialist who has empowered numerous people to live a life of their dreams, unleash their relationship with money and start and grow brands and businesses to great success. A truly inspirational individual, Jenny is also the mum to two amazing teens, a Reiki Master and motivational speaker. She inspires all to harness their greatness through energised coaching sessions, workshops and her membership club. Book a free introductory session with Jenny HERE and discovery how you might work together. Or why not get started with her FREE 'Life Change Kickstart' Mini course HERE

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