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Life & Lifestyle


I feel stuck! - creating empathy boundaries
Do you feel stuck in empathy? Always worried about everyone else and it ruins your whole day? Here are some questions to ask yourself.


High Expectations
Expectations make you unhappy Expectations are probably the one thing that gets in the way of you being happy. Yes, I know that's a big...


Living with Anxiety
Living with anxiety is tough, but there are ways of dealing with it. Knowing that you can live anxiety free is the first step.


What are you holding on to?
Do you hold on to stuff for the benefit of others? In this article I will highlight areas where we may not even realise this is happening.


My ADHD Brain
Something so simple can be so hard. For the 3rd time in as many years I am once again painting my daughter’s bedroom. This time it is...


Dry January - Self-Care?
It's not just about drinking. I haven’t had an alcoholic drink since New Year’s Eve. It wasn’t a conscious decision to do Dry January, as...


How do I declutter my life?
Work on the inside. For many years I have been trying to get my house in order. I get to the point where it looks OK and then after a few...


I don't want to
No, I really don’t want to, please find someone else. These were my words when I was asked to toll the bell for half an hour before the...


Should I stay or should I go?
How many nights have you laid awake asking yourself this question? You are not happy, but you perhaps aren’t miserable either. Or you are...


Mum Guilt!
I feel so guilty! I have heard this phrase so many times in the last month. I think it can equally be applied to dads too. Guilt over not...


I jumped from man to man.
I jumped from one relationship to the next. I want you to pause for a second after you have read that and see how it made you feel. What...


My Number 1 Divorce Fear
My biggest fear around divorce was financial. How on earth could we keep the house?! It turns out this is the number 1 worry of people...


Finding Myself After Divorce
I have a confession I have to confess; it took me a while to find myself after me and my husband of 11 years (16 together) decided to...


A Different Perspective
The Big Picture Stood at the top of the Empire State Building (have I mentioned I went to New York?) you feel like you can see the whole...


Bucket List New York √
New York, New York!!! I wrote my bucket list several years ago. There are all sorts of things on there from life skills to items I want...


How do I move forward in life when I'm exhausted?
How do you Design Your Life when everything is going wrong? Your emotions are all over the place, you have kids to look after, you feel...


My Journey - How I got where I am
I was born in Hull in 1978 with an older brother, my mum and my dad (who worked at sea as a Captain). Life was outwardly idyllic, but I...


They found someone else and it hurts
It’s so painful to see them with someone else, how can I move forward? I hear this a lot from my clients. Their partner has moved on to...


I planned the M&S of all Divorces.
We wanted it to be perfect. The perfect separation. The M&S of all divorces. We were fully invested in this notion. We worked hard at it...


We Have to Talk
“We have to talk” Those fateful words everyone dreads. But they were coming out of my own mouth. What on earth was I thinking? A few...
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