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I MANIFESTED my perfect man!!…

6 months ago, I told the Universe what I wanted in my perfect man.

5 months ago, he turned up.

It began in October last year on a very wet and cold day at Alton Towers theme park. I was with my children and me and my eldest daughter talked about who my perfect man would be. She wanted him to like rollercoasters and make me happy (what a girl!).

I wanted him to enjoy good food and wine, like the theatre, be kind and interested in what I did. I wanted someone who was completely supportive of my journey and willing to grow with me. I wanted someone with dark hair and over 5ft 10.

I wandered around Alton Towers that day thinking how lovely it would be if I found someone who could join me. Perhaps he would also have children who liked rollercoasters. I imagined the family day out where we would have a fun time together instead of me being the only adult and feeling drained by 5pm.

But I didn’t just daydream. I took action.

On that wet day in October, while queuing to ride the coasters, me and my daughter were swiping left. My daughter told me I was being too picky, but I knew what I wanted. I wrote everything down as a blueprint for my “perfect” man. I created a dating profile asking for all the things I wanted. I didn’t pretend to be someone I wasn’t. I laid everything out there to attract the person who wanted the real me.

2 weeks later I Matched. It was him.

He had every quality I had asked for (apart from the dark hair and what’s half an inch in height between my perfect man and me – it turns out I was wrong, he is the perfect height).

During half term we had the day out in Alton Towers. The one I had thought about 5 months earlier. We spent the whole day, finally leaving at 8pm. It was exactly as I imagined it would be.

Have you ever tried to manifest something?

Have you sat and prayed, wished and hoped….but nothing happened?

That might be because, along with all those great things, action is also required.

If you want someone (or thing) to find you, you have to make yourself discoverable.

If you want to create abundance in your life, it helps to be grateful for what you already have, to feel abundant.

I have manifested things throughout my life. Some have been good and others less so. All have been what I focused on most and then took action.

If you would like to manifest something in your life, whether it’s the perfect career or relationship, coaching can help get your mindset in a great space and then create the plan to bring those thoughts to reality.

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and if you are ready to manifest the life, relationship and world you've been dreaming of but don't know how to begin - please visit my main website HERE I'd love to work with you.

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Jenny Jarvis is a practicing, certified, UK Holistic Life Change Coach and NLP Specialist who has empowered numerous people to live a life of their dreams, unleash their relationship with money and start and grow brands and businesses to great success. A truly inspirational individual, Jenny is also the mum to two amazing teens, a Reiki Master and motivational speaker. She inspires all to harness their greatness through energised coaching sessions, workshops and her membership club. Book a free introductory session with Jenny HERE and discovery how you might work together. Or why not get started with her FREE 'Life Change Kickstart' Mini course HERE


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